Archive for February, 2010

Valentine’s Day Musings

Friday, February 12th, 2010

“I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.”

  – Alice Walker

No matter how you feel about Valentine’s Day it is easier to embrace it than try to deny its existence.  I can remember exchanging valentines in elementary school.  I’d select the package of “be mine” messages that best suited me and decide who was worthy of receiving one (there were only so many in a package after all!).  It was a lot of pressure for a kid and I think that V-day anxiety carries over to adulthood for some.

I started working for a florist when I was 16 years old so Feb. 14 always meant a lot of work and late hours for me.  As a florist you see so many faces on Valentine’s week…husbands, fathers, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands buying flowers for their wives AND their girlfriends, Yes, someone actually admitted that to me once!!!…and it was pretty easy to jump on the anti-Valentine’s Day bandwagon. 

Since I have a floral design business that focuses on weddings rather than holidays my icy Valentine’s Day exterior has begun to melt away and I have come back around to the other side of not minding V-day so much and may in fact embrace it this year.  My husband and I are taking today off to ski and tomorrow we’ll be getting massages at Cynthea’s Spa…not a bad plan so far, huh?! 

How did all this get started?  In case you are interested here’s a little Valentine legend for you about the origin of the first ‘valentine’ greeting sent by St. Valentine himself…  While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl (who may have been his jailor’s daughter) who visited him during his confinement.  Before his death, he wrote her a letter, which he signed ‘From your Valentine,’ an expression that we still use today.  Although the stories behind the Valentine legends are varied as to why Feb. 14 is the date and who St. Valentine actually was, they accentuate the tradition of romance and love.

According to history.com approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine’s Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia. The moral of this story is step it up boys!

My Vermont Wedding

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

Dave & I spend most of our time focusing on other peoples’ weddings, but with Valentine’s Day just around the corner I am feeling sentimental and remembering our wedding day so I thought I’d share some details from my Vermont wedding with you.  We had our ceremony and reception at Kingsland Bay State Park over Labor Day weekend in 2003.  Most of our guests were from out-of-state so we made a weekend of it with a BBQ welcome reception on Friday evening, rehearsal dinner on Saturday night, a Sunday afternoon wedding and a Monday morning brunch for out-of-town guests.  I was definitely a DIY bride when it came to planning which is probably why I always advise my brides to delegate!  Our wedding style was Gatsby-inspired with a bit of Asian flair.

I arrived with my parents.  My dad carried my train & my mom looked too cute for words.

We had a Sunday wedding with a simple chuppah which we made by hanging a vintage sari (something borrowed) from the trees.  The sunflowers on the corners added the perfect touch!

Our guests released butterflies after the ceremony.

My dress was made by a seriously talented friend who saw to all the details.  When I saw this buttery yellow fabric I thought it was perfect, but as far as the actual design of the dress–that was up to my dressmaker, Kathleen.  We used my grandmother’s wedding dress for the train (my something old) and a kimono for the ceremony also featured some of my grandmother’s dress.  The headpiece and straps of my dress were made of 14k gold thread from India.  To seriously gild the lily Kathleen sewed our names, our wedding date and the words, “and they lived happily ever after”, inside my dress in baby blue thread (my something blue).  I don’t think it could have been any more special.  My mother-in-law made my necklace & bracelet of Venetian glass & pearls (something new) and I wore the silver, gold and pearl earrings that were the first “jewelry gift” Dave got for me in college.  His pocket square was made from a piece of material from my dress as were two little bags for our rings. 

Black and white photos are just fun so I included a few here.  We found someone who had an antique Model-T that just happened to match my dress.  When we went to see the car I knew it would be perfect.  A couple of months after our wedding we ended up moving a block away from the owner in Jericho!

We brewed & bottled our own beer and rootbeer, then designed personalized labels.  Dave’s beer, Ellis Elixir, featured his favorite Jimi Hendrix album cover and Al’s Ale, the bride’s brew, displayed an image that my dad drew for the invitations to my parents’ wedding (he made 3 different invitations for their wedding and the rootbeer label was also one of his designs).  Our theme for the invitations and programs was love, love, love–think Beatles and sing it!–so it seemed apropos that the smile says LOVE . 

This group shot was taken just before we hit the buffet.

My friend, Theresa, created all of the beautiful flowers.  She knows my style and is extremely talented so she needed little input from me.  I had considered doing my own flowers, but quickly realized that meant I would never be done planning until the day of my wedding and I wanted to enjoy the plans we’d made with our guests!   It was such a nice surprise to see all the beautiful details she arranged for us.  I had 2 bouquets because I simply could not choose what I wanted to carry and I still remember how fresh our centerpieces looked.  I cut celosia, lisianthus & sunflowers from an organic farm I was working on at the time, Clay Brook Farm (which is also located in the town where we now live!), as well as some fresh herbs and chive blossoms.  If you’ve been following my blog you may have seen my DIY instructions for the chive blossom vinegar we made for our wedding favors. 

Thanks for strolling down memory lane with me today!  A few wedding players deserve a mention…Catering by Dale was on site to create an amazing buffet that some of our friends and family still talk about.  David’s suit, which I often refer to as the best investment we ever made, was from Michael Kehoe in Burlington.  We got our cakes from Mirabelle’s (we had chocolate for the groom’s cake and a traditional white cake with raspberry filling as well),  Lunaroma created a custom fragrance for me, which I still wear and love…and Karen Pike was our photographer.

Fresh flowers for your Valentine!

Wednesday, February 10th, 2010

Valentine’s Day is this Sunday, Feb. 14th, and I think you should buy flowers.  Whether we’re talking about weddings or holidays, flowers sometimes get a bad rap simply because they don’t ‘last forever’.  I personally think we have enough stuff in our lives that will last forever and the fact that flowers die should not make them worthless.  I hear slogans that refer to “gifts that won’t wilt” (from Flashbags who I absolutely adore!) or “a creative alternative to sending flowers” (made popular by Vermont Teddy Bear, a beloved VT company who also happens to sell flowers through a sister company!) and it feels like flowers get picked on (pardon the flower pun).  Food gets consumed & wine gets drunk…and perhaps so do you!, chocolates get devoured, but flowers light up your life for a few days reminding you of the thoughtful friend or lover who brought them to you and then, they are compostable.

Flowers say I love you without the need for perfect words or too much planning.  You can instantly be transformed from thoughtless to thoughtful with a bouquet in hand.  In my experience, flowers are a perfect gift and are usually very much appreciated.  I should know…I have delivered them for years and people are always happy to see me!  I like to think it is my winning smile, but the warm welcomes I receive are oftentimes attributed to the fresh flowers in my arms.  My husband has always brought me flowers and I have worked as a florist for as long as he’s known me.  It is one of the things that would definitely be on the list of romantic & thoughtful things he does for me.  (It’s sappy, but true.)   

While I took a different route with my business than the traditional flower shop, it is where I got my roots so I have a level of respect & sentimentality for the importance of the retail florist.  (Quick side note:  When I first moved to Burlington in 1996 there were 5 flower shops within walking distance of UVM, now there is only 1.)  As is true with any business that caters to you and your Valentine, florists will have higher prices around the holiday, but keep in mind that your prix fixe dinner menu probably follows the same trend and while your meal lasts for only a few hours your flowers are sure to last at least a few days!

Florists raise their prices not simply in an effort to gouge you, but because their costs also increase.  A single rose will cost your florist nearly twice as much the week before Valentine’s Day than they will the rest of the year.  That is why they double the cost of their roses to the customer.  Not only are the roses more expensive during this time, but because of the high volume of cutting that is done in anticipation of the Valentine’s rush they are not as easy to get from flower growers during the upcoming weeks which keeps the price a bit higher than normal (that whole supply and demand thing!), but you will find that the price for you, the customer, will promptly return to pre-holiday pricing.  The additional staff and overtime hours required to fill all the special orders from design to delivery is also a big factor in the cost of doing business on V-day.  If you want to get the most for your money, then skip the “dozen roses delivered” and pick from the selection of all the other flowers in the cooler to arrange a fresh cut bouquet—the most economical way to buy flowers!  Because a wrapped bouquet is not considered an “arrangement” and does not require a designer’s time to arrange it you will get more flowers per dollar as compared to a vase arrangement (which also includes the cost of the vase, of course).  I always think your best value is to select what looks fresh and if you are unsure, ask for help to get the best results. 

Small flower shops often struggle to keep their doors open and in an economy where grocery stores sell stems for less than florists pay for their product (yes, they charge less than wholesale in some cases!) and the internet satisfies all of our shopping needs, the brick and mortar flower shop could use a little back-up this year.  So if you haven’t already you should order flowers for delivery to your sweetheart or swing by a local shop on Thursday, Friday or Saturday to pick up a fresh bouquet to deliver in person.  If you know what you want, try to order it in advance and schedule a time for pick-up so the florist is sure to have it ready for you.  You don’t have to spend $100…or even $50.  Pick up a bunch of Dutch tulips or gerbera daisies or go for a half dozen roses if you are an old-school romantic.  Whatever you choose you are sure to warm someone’s heart.  Keep it local.  Keep it real.  Keep it fresh.  

Flower Care Tips:  Fresh bouquets will require the recipient to trim at least ½” from the bottom of the stems with a sharp knife or garden clipper—not a scissor—before arranging in a vessel filled ¾ of the way with clean water.  No foliage should fall below the water line and the water should be changed daily or every other day at which time the flowers should also receive a fresh cut.  If the temperature outside is 34o F or less you should be sure that the flowers are wrapped in plastic bag or heavy paper to protect them from freezing…something that the grocery store often will not do properly for you!  If you will have the flowers out-of-water for 2 hours or more you should ask your florist to put water tubes on the end of each stem…and Yes, you will still have to re-cut them before you put them in water!

Something blue

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

I am not sure if watching Paris Blues with Paul Newman over the weekend (whose eyes are so blue I swear they even look blue in black & white!) has anything to do with it, but I am in a blue mood so far this week.  Brides can get creative when incorporating something blue into your wedding garb.  Yesterday’s post featured blue wedding flowers, but there are other ways to fit blue into your wedding attire.  Here are a few ideas to get your started… 

Broach–Pin a blue broach to your dress, bridal bouquet or shoes.  (I just love the idea of shoe jewelry!  There is something so vintage about it.)

Earrings–Select a pair of blue earrings to add a small sparkle of color.  Sapphires, turquoise or crystals all work!

Hairpiece–Incorporate a blue hair-pin or feather to your headpiece.

Hankie–Carry a baby blue handkerchief or have one embroidered with blue thread.  

Sash–If you want to be more deliberate add a blue sash to your dress or tie your bouquet with blue ribbon.

Shoes–Find a pair of blue shoes to peak out from underneath your dress.  Yes, Carrie did it in Sex and the City and so can you!

Flowers by color–blues

Monday, February 8th, 2010

Blue can be beautiful.  From sky blue to navy to what we often call “Tiffany”, blue can be a great starting point or accent to your wedding palette.  In terms of flowers when we say blue we are usually talking about purple because there are very few flowers that come in a true blue color.  Purple iris are often considered blue as are grape hyacinth & campanula, while forget-me-nots are unmistakeably baby blue.  Use blue blooms as an accent with whites & greens or be bold with contrasting yellow & orange tones for a bright, summer splash of color. 

10 of my favorite blue wedding flowers include:

Nigella, forget-me-nots, tweedia, delphinium, hydrangea, thistle, anemones, hyacinth, eucalyptus & bachelor buttons.  Under no circumstances should you consider using dyed blue flowers for your wedding!    

Alison’s favorite things (vol. 5)

Friday, February 5th, 2010

Vermont Gold Vodka from Vermont Spirits is one of those pure, natural, maple-inspired products that embodies, well, quite frankly, the spirit of Vermont!  This ”single malt” vodka is distilled from maple sap which gives it an earthy flavor that is mildly sweet .  Try it on ice or add maple syrup & sparkling cider.  It’s pretty darn delicious.  Check out their website for drink recipes you can serve at your wedding or next social gathering and lots of other info about their company!  Your guests will love!  

  

 

  

   

   

   

 

Bridesmaids dresses

Thursday, February 4th, 2010

Vera Wang knows dresses.  Period.  Beautiful bridesmaids start with beautiful dresses and if you check out her website you will find cuts and colors to suit any style.  The blues, browns and the classic ebony are a great starting point for your palette.  Here are a few of my faves…       

The first dress, Victoria in Tissue Organza, is sweet, sophisticated and will be worn again! 

The deep V-neckline with the flower make Dee in Silk Twill and Satin a winner in my book.

Betsy in Lame is ethereal and young.  A great look for a summer or fall event.

 For a clean, simple, elegant dress that is perfect for day or evening, Breanne in Chiffon is it.

Happy attendants start with dresses that they feel beautiful in.  Whether Vera’s style suits your taste or you prefer a J. Crew cut, if you select something your bridesmaids love it will show!  By the way are you loving the shoes on the third model as much as I do?!

Flowers for Kitchen Table Bistro

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

Steven and Lara Atkins of The Kitchen Table Bistro in Richmond (or KTB as we like to call it!) along with four distinguished chefs from Verde in Stratton, Hen of the Wood in Waterbury, Bluebird Tavern in Burlington, & Solstice in Stowe will be in NYC on March 22 cooking at The James Beard House and last night they did a rehearsal dinner for a lucky group of patrons.  I made arrangements of privet berries, white amaryllis, ornamental cabbage, delphinium, anemones, berzilia and white hybrid limonium for the occasion.

We always do something special for the sideboard in the main hallway.

This white amaryllis was out of this world!  Truly beautiful.

Small arrangements of ornamental cabbage, purple anemones, privet berries, berzilia and limonium adorned the window sills of the dining rooms.  The cabbage almost looks like a rose!

Blue delphinium and yellow mimosa blooms topped the mantelpiece.

If you haven’t been to The Kitchen Table Bistro you should make a reservation for your next special occasion.  (Valentine’s Day will soon be upon us!!)  We have had some of our favorite meals there.  Oh, and don’t forget to leave room for dessert!

Flowers by color–light pink

Monday, February 1st, 2010

Some brides are hot pink, while others prefer a lighter shade.  I personally like them mixed together so you get the best of both worlds!  Last Monday I featured hot pink designs so naturally it only seemed right to highlight paler pinks today!  Pink blooms featured in this inspiration board include ranunculus, roses, nerine lilies, lisianthus, Ti leaves, snapdragons, sweet peas, orchids, peonies, gerbera daisies and dahlias.