Archive for February, 2011

Military Wedding in Burlington, Vermont

Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011

This Wedding Wednesday I bring to you an oldie, but a goodie from July 4th, 2009!  Thanks to Two Bright Lights I recently got these photos from Kelly of Closed Circle Photography.  This is a great Burlington Waterfront wedding and let’s face it, a groom in uniform is pretty darn snazzy!

The bride carried a bouquet of white hydrangea, pink roses, lisianthus, freesia & tulips.

I like the way the flower girl seems to be admiring Yvonne’s dress in this photo!

Leaving the church in a military fashion…

…lookin’ sharp!

Fun shots down on the waterfront after the ceremony.

These flowers have a pink tone that sort of completes a honeysuckle trifecta for the week!

Thanks to Kelly for sharing photos and thanks to Two Bright Lights for making it oh-so-easy!

Honeysuckle Pink Flowers for your Wedding

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011

I made a guest-blog-appearance yesterday on Under The Moon, the official blog of Lasso’d Moon Designs, with a nod to Pantone’s Color of the Year, honeysuckle.  Honeysuckle is a medium-pink with undertones of red–some might choose to call it a reddish pink, but I’m on the true, medium-pink page with it myself.

This is the inspiration board that appeared in yesterday’s post.

20 flowers that are available in the honeysuckle pink palette:

Roses, Bouvardia, Zinnias, Dahlias, Peonies, Callas, Snapdragons, Sweet William, Anemones, Ranunculus, Asiatic lilies, Tulips, Godetia, Orchids, Sweet Peas, Phlox, Gerberas, Orchids, Gladiolus and Waxflower…just to name a few.  Of course, honeysuckle vine (Lonicera), comes in a honeysuckle pink color, but I would not recommend it as a fresh cut flower.

What is your favorite honeysuckle pink flower?

Thanks to Carey from Lasso’d Moon for inviting me to be a guest blogger.

Bewitched, Bothered and Beholden

Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

If you ask me Ella Fitzgerald is the bees knees.  She sings about being Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered by love so today I thought I ‘d throw out a few B-word definitions for brides in honor of Lady Ella and the fabulous new wedding line by Anthropologie that was unveiled on Valentine’s Day!  If you haven’t seen the bhldn site {pronounced beholden} you simply must check it out dahhhrrling.

Five B-Words for Brides

Bewitch {To affect by witchcraft or magic; cast a spell}

Bothered {Annoyed; pestered; worried}

Bewildered {Completely confused, puzzled or perplexed}

Bespoke {Made to individual order; (older usage) engaged to be married; spoken for}

Beholden {Anthropologie’s new wedding collection which you can explore at bhldn.com}  Check it out and find something fabulous and vintage-inspired to add to your wedding attire.

Here are a few of my favorite looks…just in case you have clicked through to their shop yet!

This first look is my faaavorite.  I just love it.  The shoes, the headpiece, I want it all.

This next dress is super adorable and affordable.  I love the dress and adore those golden yellow shoes, but I’d like to see the headpiece I selected below instead of the bow on the model.  You could even add a bolero and the whole look for under $1,300.

Yes, they have boleros.  End of sentence.  I want to wear one every day as I sit at my desk or design in my studio.  I uber love the pewter-grey attendant’s dress and think the blue bolero would be fabulous with it!…it would also be a great something new and something blue, too!  Plus, having your shoulders covered during the ceremony is classy…just sayin’.

Have you been to the bhldn.com yet??  Go, look, shop, enjoy!  You lucky bride you.

What’s your favorite look?

How I really feel about Valentine’s Day

Monday, February 14th, 2011

Valentine’s Day means different things to different people.  For some it’s romantic, for others it’s a dreadful “holiday”.  I think it’s all a matter of perspective combined with your own personal history of traumatizing Valentine’s Day experiences.  I started working as a florist when I was 16 years old so I was in the business of Valentine’s Day fairly early in my life.  It was always more of a work-day than a love-fest for me.  

{A bitter history}  In high school I worked long hours in the days leading up to the holiday filling water tubes and making rose arrangements, but after all of this flower-prep I still could not get my boyfriend to buy me one of those darned overpriced carnations they sold at school.  Valentine’s Day definitely felt like more of a chore in my younger days.  Add to this the time a customer told me that he’d buy one arrangement for his wife and “another one for his girlfriend”–biting my tongue was definitely part of my j-o-b and Valentine’s Day was starting to get gross.  The bloom was off the rose.

{On the sweeter side}  I can remember being 10 or 11 years old when my dad came home with a dozen red roses in a vase for my mom and 2 vases with a half-dozen roses for my sister and me.  The impact of receiving those flowers is still fresh in my memory.  I can recall how grown-up I felt having them in my room.  Several years later when I was in high school my father gave me Adam Sandler’s What the Hell Happened to Me? on cassette tape as a valentine.  I guess my point is that it’s clearly the thought that counts. Every year I get a Valentine’s Day card from my uncle–often the girliest of girlie cards…like with red glitter roses or ballerinas (I’m thinking they don’t make Valentine’s Day cards for ‘a great niece’ who is older than 9!)–and I think that makes Valentine’s Day a little more special.

{Even Sweeter}  Forty years ago my parents got engaged on Valentine’s Day so for them I think of it as kind of an “extra” anniversary they share each year.  On August 21st this year they will celebrate their 40th wedding anniversary.  I think that’s pretty darn sweet.

{Present day}  As I’ve gotten older (and more specifically since I’ve stopped working at a flower shop on Valentine’s Day!) I’ve softened up a bit on the whole Valentine’s thing.  I also found a pretty sweet valentine in my husband so that makes it easier to embrace the ooey-gooey-ness that’s required to truly acknowledge this holiday.  He makes me smile with my heart.

{Valentine’s Day Pep Talk}  I encourage you to look at this Valentine’s Day not as a florist’s holiday or a creation of the greeting card companies, but rather as a day to affirm to those you love that you’ve got a little extra sweetness to share.  Make a romantic dinner at home; crack open a bottle of bubbly; share a box of chocolates; send a Valentine to your mother-in-law; get “the expenssive” take-out from all the way across town–just do something! 

What are your Valentine’s Day plans?  I’m going to make a nice dinner and sew up a few large holes in Dave’s favorite old sweater.  I’m a terrible seamstress so he will really know that my heart was in it!  Here are a few of my tips on how to order flowers for your valentine (just in case you haven’t done anything sweet yet).

Something sweet I got for my sweet.  A strawberry fruit tart from Chef’s Corner in Williston.  Deee-lishh!

Yup, you guessed it…these are Valentine’s Day cards from my uncle.  Yup, I save them.

And a pic of Dave and me at UVM in 1997 (about a year and a half before we started dating).

Wonderful Wife Tip–Homemade Chocolate Truffles for your Valentine

Friday, February 11th, 2011

Valentine’s Day is all about sweets for your sweet and my favorite sweet is definitely chocolate so while I may call this a “wonderful wife tip” it’s a seriously great husband tip, too.  These homemade chocolate truffles are simple and delicious.  There is nothing better than the look you get when you tell someone you made truffles.  They make you sound pretty darn fancy and I think they are a perfect Valentine’s Day gift.

I clipped this simple 5 Step truffle recipe out of Brides Magazine in 2007 and I’ve made them a few times.  They are oh-so-good and totally worth the modest amount of effort and patience required.  Brides Mag presented it as a DIY favor idea, but as Ricky Ricardo would say, “that’s just so ridiculous!”  They state that the recipe makes about 50 small truffles, but I tend to get closer to 25-30 medium sized truffles and that’s fine with me.  I would not recommend tackling a large quantity for your first try at homemade truffle making, but if you are daring and amazing, then perhaps you are not as easily intimidated as me.  I’ve seen truffle recipes that are far more complicated than this one!

Super useful tools for this DIY trick include:

A double boiler

Wax paper–You need this for sure ya’ll

Perhaps a cute little box to present these babies in or a cute cake plate with a glass cloche

An understanding that chocolate burns easily

You’ll need the following ingredients for the ganache:

8 oz. dark chocolate–use something good with no more than 70% cacao.  Don’t be cheap here.

1/2 cup plus 2 Tablespoons of heavy cream, warmed

2 Tablespoons unsalted butter softened at room temperature

For the coating you’ll need:

4 oz. dark chocolate (You may even want to go for 5 oz. or more so you have plenty to dip in!)

Toppings of your choice such as some chopped nuts, a dusting of crystalized sugar, cocoa powder or some sea salt  (Sea salt on chocolate could change your life if you’ve never done this before.)  I used lavender sugar and vanilla bean sugar from Savory Spice Shop in the chocolates pictured below.  They don’t need a topping if you prefer to serve them plain.

Step 1:  Melt 8 oz. of chocolate in a double boiler or a stainless steel bowl over barely simmering water.  I use a whisk for this.  If you’re new to working with chocolate you should be warned that chocolate burns easily and it can happen quickly.  You can always re-melt or add more heat, but you cannot take the burnt taste out.

Step 2:  Remove the chocolate from the heat and slowly whisk in the cream which you have heated either in a pyrex measuring cup in the microwave or on the stove.  Do not scorch or boil the cream, though!  If the chocolate stiffens and separates, keep whisking and add more cream. Again, if you’re new to chocolatier-ing what can happen is the chocolate almost starts to get little “shards” as it separates, but the best thing to do is keep stirring until the texture becomes a smooth ganache and holds the lines of the whisk.  Slowly whisk in the butter until incorporated.

Step 3:  Use a rubber spatula to transfer the ganache to a small square metal or glass pan lined with wax paper.  I use a small rectangular glass dish that measures 7 X 5 so anything around that size would be ideal.  Cover and refrigerate for at least two hours.  This will make square truffles and is the way I choose to do my truffle.

Step 4:  Dip a sharp knife into hot water and tap off excess water.  Slice the ganache into long 1/2″ strips and then cut into 1/2″ cubes.  Layer them between sheets of wax paper in an airtight container and chill again for 2 hours.

Step 5:  Melt the additional 4-5 oz. of chocolate as you did in Step 1.  You’ll need to let it cool for 10-15 minutes and I pour that into a small glass bowl that I dip the truffles straight into.  Set up  a nice work area for yourself so you can dip each truffle into the melted chocolate, place it on a wax lined baking tray and immediately add a topping while the chocolate is still melty.

Set aside to harden and refrigerate for as much as 3 weeks…if they last that long!  Dipping tips: Use a spoon to scoop the truffles out of the pool of chocolate and if the chocolate for the coating starts to harden just place the glass bowl into the microwave for 20 seconds or so to re-melt it.

Present these to your Valentine (or make them for yourself!) and taste the love!

When should you book your wedding florist?

Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

I love a good wedding magazine and they always come with a wedding check-list.  The thing I always check out is at what point they recommend a couple should contract their florist.  Most planning calendars suggest you book your florist 6-7 months before your wedding and I’ve seen sources that suggest 4 months is ample time to contract a designer–I’m going to have to disagree with this.

I read a recent check-list in a national magazine that advised,  “You needn’t nail down a florist as early as other vendors because they can serve multiple clients on one day.”  This thinking is a bit out of touch since there are more and more floral designers who focus on custom wedding design and limit the number of bookings in order to better serve their clients.

Style savvy couples are no doubt researching florists online and the wedding-focused designers clearly stand out whether they work from a storefront or a studio.  If you know you like a particular designer inquire with them as early as possible.

I get most of my inquiries anywhere from 15-8 months in advance so the “don’t worry, your florist will be waiting for your call” approach would not be my recommendation if you are planning to marry anytime from June-October.  I am sure this is the case for many floral designers.

I think  perhaps it’s time to update the floral piece of the planning calendar to reflect the fact that when flowers are a priority for you design-wise you should act sooner rather than later. Whether you are planning a destination wedding via e-mail and phone consultations or hosting a wedding in your backyard once your venue is decided you can hire a florist that best suits your style, budget and location.

Above is one if my favorite attendant’s bouquets.  The citrus tones in the yellow zinnias, freesia, garden roses and bupleurum with lemon yellow spray roses is such a clean, fresh look.

Planning a gay wedding in Vermont

Monday, February 7th, 2011

I attended a seminar over the weekend with Bernadette Coveney Smith, President of 14 Stories Gay Wedding Institute.  I’ve been following her on twitter so I knew she was the expert on planning gay weddings, but meeting her and talking about planning same-sex weddings with other Vermont wedding pros was seriously cool and long overdue.

Over 10 years ago I started designing flowers for civil unions (our old school version of the gay wedding before same-sex marriage passed in 2009!), but hearing from Bernadette made me feel even more “ready & able” to advise couples on unique traditions that are specific to a modern day LGBT wedding.  We were introduced to new traditions that many of us who attended the seminar agreed would be welcome replacements to some old wedding traditions that we think could be retired!  {For example you won’t be hearing “When A Man Love A Woman” played anytime during the reception!}

Bernadette spoke about a “triumphant energy” that a same-sex couple feels when they are pronounced legally married that resonates with me now as I write this.  We still have a long way to go until there are equal marriage rights across this country for all citizens and that makes Vermont a unique and special destination for all weddings.

I appreciate that Bernadette made the trip from Boston to Stowe to educate us on what’s happening in the gay wedding scene and how we can better serve our clients.  Visit gayweddinginstitute.com to learn more about 14 Stories.

Check out one of my favorite weddings, Andy and Laura, Part 1 here and Part 2 here!  I love their bold color palette and fabulous details.

This centerpiece includes pin-cushion protea, orange mokara orchids, delphinium, hot pink roses, ‘fiesta’ spray roses and a gerbera daisy.

Wonderful Wife Tip–Turkey Chili Recipe

Friday, February 4th, 2011

The Superbowl is on Sunday evening and if there is one thing I have learned over the years it’s that my husband simply l-o-v-e-s football.  I didn’t grow up in a “football family” so this was all new to me at first.  Over the years I’ve learned a few football season survival tips…like when the clock says there are 2 minutes left in the game it will probably be about a half an hour before it’s actually over; if my husband is screaming “YES” and clapping his hands like a maniac that means the Patriots just scored; and if the score is 63 to 3 it’s not a big deal if I need to ask my husband to get up off the couch to help with something in our real life, however if it’s 10 to 7 in the fourth quarter he ain’t goin’ nowhere.

I think a Chili Recipe is an appropriate farewell to the football season and definitely a wonderful wife tip!  My chili is more of a stew-like dish than a slow cooked chili that simmers for half the day in a crock pot.  (I make this recipe about once a week in the winter and we have dinner for 2 nights.)  

You will need the following ingredients:

 1 or 1 ½ lbs. ground turkey (I use 99% lean)

 1 onion

1-2 cloves of garlic

2 carrots

1 can of black beans  (15-16 oz.)

1 can of cannellini beans

1 large can of crushed tomatoes  (28 oz.)

To make it super awesome you can also add 1-2 cups of corn and 1-2 bell peppers

Prep all of your ingredients–Chop up all the veggies to a ¼-½” size, drain and rinse the beans, open the can of tomatoes and the package of turkey meat.  (Seriously, open everything so you can just throw it together—it’s much easier that way!)

Take out a nice big ‘ol pot—you know, like the size you’d cook chili in!—and coat with 1 Tablespoon of olive oil.  Turn the heat to medium-low and sauté the onions for 1-2 minutes, add the carrots and sauté for another 5-7 minutes (add chopped peppers if you have them for the last couple of minutes of your sauté).  Add about 2-4 teaspoons of Aleppo or crushed red pepper, ½ tsp. of cumin (sometimes I use garam masala & coriander, too, but if you like to use chili powder then go ahead and use that) to coat the veggies, then add the garlic for the final minute or so.

Now that the veggies are softened and seasoned you can add the ground turkey and mix it in using a rubber spatula—you want it to cook part-way, but it doesn’t have to be cooked all the way through since you’ll be simmering it on the stove for up to 2 hours.

Add the beans and tomatoes, mix it up and add water to the pot until the meat and veggies are completely covered.  If you want you can also add 1/2 cup of red wine and 1/2 cup of brown rice at this point–fancy pants!

Cover and bring to a boil and then turn down to a vigorous simmer and leave the lid slightly askew to allow the steam to escape.  (If you are adding corn now’s the time.)  Stir every 10-15 minutes to make sure nothing sticks to the bottom of the pot (and if it does start to stick turn that heat down a bit!) and let simmer for about 1.5-2 hours until the liquid is absorbed and it has the consistency of, well, chili!

Taste it, add salt & pepper, add more red pepper spice if you’d like and then serve it up.  Top with some grated cheese, crack open a beer and enjoy!  (You could even root for your husband’s team while you’re at it!)