Posts Tagged ‘planning tips’

Plan A Wedding That’s Uniquely Yours

Friday, January 6th, 2012

I conducted a seminar last year at The Vermont Wedding Affair and a couple approached me afterwards who needed some advice on how to “claim” their wedding as their own.  The bride and groom wanted a Vermonty farm wedding and her parents did not think that was what a wedding should look like.  I could see in her face that the bride just didn’t know what to do since her parents were footing the bill and the groom just wanted his bride to get the wedding she wants.

Communication is key to working with your partner and your family.  I suggested that the bride talk with her parents about how a ballroom wedding is simply not what she wants and that a more rustic, unique setting is what she was dreaming of.  I truly believe that parents want to give their children a beautiful wedding day.  The trouble is when there is a difference of opinion in what defines a “beautiful day”.

Family dynamics can be tricky even when we aren’t talking about planning a huge event like a wedding, but at the end of the day it’s absolutely essential that a couple feels their wedding reflected their style.  There may be a few areas where you need to take a parent’s preference into consideration (you can serve the type of booze they prefer or allow them to help pick the menu or perhaps you marry in the family’s place of worship), but don’t give up your vision entirely.

Your wedding day is the start of your life together and the planning process is a warm-up for all the decisions you are going to make throughout your lives.  Why shouldn’t you also set a tone with your families that says “this is who we are and we know what we want!”?  I am sure it will be the right decision for you to plan a wedding that’s uniquely yours.

Here’s an inspiration board with floral designs that have a more rustic, wildflowery feeling…perfect for a barn wedding!

Wedding Consultation Tips For A New Year

Wednesday, January 4th, 2012

If there is one thing that holidays remind us of it’s that you shouldn’t bring too many cooks into the kitchen and when planning a wedding it’s wise if you don’t bring too many people with different opinions to your consultations.  It’s understandable that some people prefer the input of friends and family when meeting with vendors, however, it’s important to let your own preferences shine through so you get your wedding style, not your sister’s, your mom’s or your BFF’s wedding.

If you have already defined your wedding style as a couple it may be best to meet with vendors as a couple and inform family and friends about the decisions you made together.  When it comes to selecting your florist, photographer or caterer the most important thing is to feel a connection that allows you to trust that you are in good hands.  Part of the planning process includes letting go and allowing the vendors you’ve hired to fulfill the vision you’ve planned!

Here are 7 Tips to keep in mind when meeting with a potential florist and some inspiration for finding your personal bouquet style.

White and green bouquets are classic and timeless no matter what your style or season.

How has your wedding planning experience been so far?  Do you feel confident with your choices and happy with your progress?  Has your partner been involved in the details?  No matter how far you are in the process remember to keep calm and plan on!

Plan Your Wedding On Pinterest

Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

Pinterest is an amazing tool for putting together inspiration boards for your wedding decor.  If you’re planning a wedding and aren’t on Pinterest yet you should request an invite today.

See a bouquet you like on a wedding website?….just “pin it”, create a “bouquet board” and voila, you now have an organized inspiration board.  Not only is it neat and tidy, but Pinterest keeps track of the original source where you found your inspiration.  Start following wedding pinners (like me, Alison Ellis) and your computer screen will be filled with endless wedding inspiration every time you log on.  For real…it’s awesome.

As a pinner I get a little surge of excitement when someone repins one of my pins.  This is my most re-pinned bouquet so far!

…And this mason jar has been my 2nd most popular pin!

So join the cool kid club and get yourself on Pinterest to make planning fun, easy and organized!

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Great Gift For Grooms

Monday, November 21st, 2011

Grooms sometimes require input and assistance on proper wedding attire that both represents their personal style and stays in step with the overall feeling of the wedding.  A tux can be too formal and khakis can be too casual, so finding the right balance to let you feel like yourself is essential.  Adding a personal spin can help make that happen and cuff links are a great way to accessorize your attire.  Representing your team can keep it classy, but macho at the same time!

Red Sox Cuff Links

Football Cuff Links

If you’re an online shopper you’ve probably stumbled upon Nordstrom’s fantastic website o’ fabulousness, but check out their full selection of cuff links at Nordstrom.com.  Just a hint…These would make a great gift!

I found this style savvy tip via Alison Stewart on StyleWhipped.com so you know they are also NYC stylist-approved.

What’s A Toss Bouquet?

Thursday, August 18th, 2011

A toss bouquet is a small bouquet (oftentimes a smaller version of the bride’s bouquet) that is considered a “throw away bouquet”.  We’ve all seen a bride throw a bouquet over her shoulder at the end of the night to all the single ladies as a symbol of “luck” that whoever catches the bouquet will be the next to marry.

Many brides forego this tradition, but I still make toss bouquets several times a year.  I usually place the toss bouquet on the head table or sweetheart table in a vase so the bride can swap it out to display her bridal bouquet during the reception.

Are you going to toss a bouquet at your wedding?  Did you order a toss bouquet from your floral designer?

Wedding Pros Know

Thursday, July 28th, 2011

Today’s post on Selecting Your Wedding Vendors was originally published on April 14, 2010.

I‘ve heard the term “faking it” used a lot recently and it got me thinking that when it comes to wedding planning there are times when vendors decide to fake it–especially when a business is still finding an authentic identity (ie. what they really do well).  My first few seasons were speckled with their fair share of faking it moments in an effort to never say “no” to anyone.

Can you decorate my tent poles?  Absolutely!  Have you ever done x, y, z before?  No problemo.  Is it possible for you to rent/build/invent something?  You got it!  I can learn how to solder by next June, can’t I?

While I can happily say that I have never promised something I couldn’t actually deliver (it’s not like I was just making things up as I went along after all!), I did fake iton occasion with the confidence that I could accomplish what was requested of me.

As my business has grown over the last 8 wedding seasons I have learned how not to fake it and experience has shown me the importance of being able to guide a bride in the right direction when design details become overwhelming, cost prohibitive, or out-of-line with the overall scope of the day.  Don’t get me wrong, I will still take on design elements that I haven’t done before–that’s half the fun of my job and part of what it means to create custom designs!–but I can approach them with an accurate understanding of the time considerations and costs required to complete them.

Moral of the story?…An experienced wedding vendor won’t need to fake it and can help guide you in your planning process to create a day that reflects your wedding style.  Personal style (of both the vendor and you, the couple!), pricing variables and gut instincts will be your guides when selecting wedding vendors.  You should be comfortable and confident with your choices so you won’t feel compelled to micromanage the professionals you’ve hired.  You have to trust your vendors, otherwise you should question why you hired them in the first place!

It’s our 10th Wedding Season in business this year and we’re looking forward to celebrating at the completion of the season!

FAQ’s For Your Wedding Florist. Answered.

Thursday, July 21st, 2011

I’ve been talking with couples for 2012 over the past few weeks so it feels like a good time to answer some frequently asked questions that tend to come my way.  There are a lot of steps involved in planning your wedding and I am happy to help take some of the mystery out of the process for you!

Q:  How do I book you as my wedding florist?

A:  Once you fill out my Wedding Query Form I will contact you about my availability for your wedding.  From there we usually schedule a phone consultation to get the ball rolling.  Our first conversation is a mutual interview to see how our styles and personalities match up.  If it feels like we’ll be a good match I will create a preliminary proposal for you which includes an estimated total cost for your wedding flowers.

After you review the preliminary proposal a signed contract and deposit will reserve your date.

Q:  How far in advance should I book my florist?

A:  Couples planning a wedding in Vermont from May-October should secure a florist as soon as a location and wedding date have been decided upon.  I usually start booking events about 9 months to 1 year before the wedding date.  If I happen to be booked for your date I will try to offer a referral to another florist.

Q:  I have a budget of {fill in the blank}.  Will that be enough to do what I want?

A:  This obviously depends on your total floral budget as well as all the details you have in mind, but I will offer you a clear and honest assessment of what a realistic budget for your flowers will be.

Q:  We are planning from out of state.  Can I book with you without meeting in person?

A:  Absolutely.  A majority of my clients book with me after our initial phone consultation and preliminary proposal.  We can schedule an in-person meeting at my home-studio in Jericho when you are in the area and I try my best to be accommodating to your schedule.

Q:  Can you help me with other design elements/details of the day?

A:  Flowers are my main priority, but I am more than happy to offer suggestions and guidance in any way that I can to help the overall flow of your day go smoothly.  Linens, stationery, wedding attire…you name it and I’ve probably got an opinion, a suggestion, or a referral for you.

Q:  Can you recommend a photographer or a caterer?

A:  I’ve been fortunate to work with some fabulous VT talent and can offer referrals for just about any vendors you may need.

Q:  How many weddings do you book in a weekend?

A:  I prefer to book only 1 wedding per weekend, however, there are occasions when I will design for up to 2 events.  Couples may reserve the entire weekend for your exclusive event.

Q:  What should I bring to our consultation?

A:  It is often helpful to see any fabric/color swatches, stationery samples, inspiration boards and pictures of the bride’s dress.  If you have a clear idea of the number of tables you’ll have at the reception, the number of boutonnieres and corsages you’ll need, etc. that can also be helpful.  If you don’t have anything to bring along that’s OK, too.  You don’t need to have all the details sorted out before our consultation.

Q:  Will you travel for an on-site consultation?

A:  The short answer is yes, but there is a charge which includes travel time.  The average rate is $250.

Q:  Are local/seasonal flowers available?

A:  Local flowers are most readily available in Vermont from mid-June through August.  If you have a particular color palette or favorite flowers in mind it may be more (or less) difficult to source specific blooms for you.  I personally think that July is the best month to find local, in-season varieties.

It’s important that you work with vendors that make you feel comfortable and that suit both your style and budget.  I don’t believe you should be left wondering what the final bill will be or if your florist “gets you”.  Planning the flowers should be one of the fun parts of the wedding process and it’s my pleasure to assist you along the way.

If you have a “Q” that I didn’t “A” please leave a comment or shoot me an e-mail and I will get back to you with an answer asap!

5 Wedding Color Palettes

Tuesday, June 14th, 2011

Pleasing palettes and fresh flowers you’ll find in those palettes (originally posted on December 1, 2009).

Selecting your color palette is a personal decision.  I gave you a few pointers last week on selecting your color palette, but if you’re not sure where to start here are 5 color combos to consider:

White/Ivory & Greens–A classic palette that works no matter what the season and will never go out of style.  It can be modern or vintage, high-end or casual and when it comes to flowers you can put the emphasis on the green or the white depending on your personal taste.  Yellow or peach accents can add a twist while keeping the look clean.  Flowers suggestions:  roses, callas, peonies, lisianthus, tulips.

Eggplant & Olive green–Mix deep tones for a lush, rich palette that makes a bold statement.  Choose green linens with centerpieces of various purple blooms and incorporate artichokes, figs or purple grapes for a natural eggplant tone.  Add candlelight and perhaps a touch of blue (periwinkle or navy) or white to compliment this combo.  Flower suggestions:  anemones, dahlias, callas, orchids, hydrangea.

Orange & Pinks–Truly a fun and interesting composition that can focus on raspberry pinks and deep orange tones or paler pink accents with orange, white and yellow.  Imagine raspberry pink or tangerine dresses or linens for a unique summery look that can transcend any season.  Consider using fresh raspberries and orange slices to decorate your cake.  Flower suggestions:  dahlias, callas, ranunculus, roses, lilies.

Navy blue & Yellows–A sophisticated palette that can also be fun.  Partner these colors for a bright, clean look with a preppy feel.  Picture dark navy attendants’ dresses and bright yellow bouquets with hints of white & green.   Flower suggestions:  freesia, ranunculus, roses, delphinium, snapdragons.

Pink & White–Almost needs no introduction as it is such a classic union, however the spectrum of pinks can make this look sweet or saucy.  Select pale pink blooms with white hydrangea for a more subdued, traditional wedding look or add punches of fuchsia for a more dramatic contrast.  Flower suggestions:  sweet pea, tulips, dianthus, bouvardia, nerine lilies.

Whether you lean toward the traditional or tend to make a statement your palette should be something that not only appeals to your personal taste, but also works with your venue and season.  Lighter colored blooms can help brighten a darker space, while deeper tones can bring the focus to the tabletops in a large space.  Work with what you have and have a beautiful wedding!

 

Tips For Selecting Your Color Palette

Thursday, June 9th, 2011

A classic rewind from November 12, 2009 with color palette advice for couples planning a wedding.

Aside from your location and your wedding dress the color palette will be one of the biggest decisions that defines the style of your wedding.  Once you choose your colors other details about your décor will start to fall into place.  Many couples know their color palette prior to their consultation with a florist, however it is not unusual to discuss color options in your initial meeting and then take a little time to refine your ideas.

For couples who are unsure, here are a few tips to get you started:
Take a look around in your everyday life and try to notice which colors you feel good around.  It may be as simple as looking in your closet!  Your favorite scarf or sweater could be your inspiration!  In addition to looking through bridal magazines you should take note of colors you feel drawn to while you’re at work, walking down the street or looking for dresses for your bridal party.  Even if they aren’t the colors your wedding party will be wearing they may be a great choice for flowers or linens.

You could select a crisp palette of yellows, whites and greens or a colorful combination that also incorporates blues, reds, oranges and pinks.  Remember these are the colors you will be surrounded by on your wedding day so they should suit YOU. From the table linens to the boutonnieres & corsages, the colors you choose will help determine all these important details.  Keep in mind that certain flower varieties may be dictated by your color palette as well as the time of year you will be married.  For example if you LOVE peonies you will probably incorporate pinks or whites in your color scheme.

Important note: Have fun with this part!  The flowers and overall design scheme are elements that set the tone for the day and even if you are not sure what those colors are yet, your florist/event designer will be able to help you discover what suits your taste.

Happy planning!

 

6 Tips For A Happy & Stylish Wedding Party

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Six Wedding Party Tips that will keep your attendants stylish and happy!  (Originally posted on December 9, 2009.)

Unlike the days when puffy sleeves and pastels were all the rage, it is totally fashionable to have a fabulous wedding party!

1. Consider having your girls wear different colors or styles of dresses (just in case everyone doesn’t feel she can pull off the color and strapless cut you may have in mind).

2. Coordinate the girls’ look with matching shoes & handbags.

3. Use bold, beaded jewelry to finish the look no matter what your style.  Necklaces, bracelets and earrings all work to accomplish a matched style.

4. Perfectly match pashminas to your palette or add another pop of color to pull the look together.  By the way, any of the aforementioned items would be thoughtful gift ideas from you to your maids!

5. Picture your groomsmen in matching suits (instead of tuxedos–particularly for mid-day ceremonies) with coordinating shirts & ties in your chosen palette.

6. Bridesmaids & groomsmen prefer to be seated with their dates instead of being separated by “head table status”.  Everyone will love you for this one!

What are you doing to keep your wedding party stylish and happy?